God wants to separate us from what divides us.
Small Things with Great Love: Adventures in Loving Your
Neighbor
Author: Margot Starbuck
Foreword: Tony Campolo
Publisher: IVP Books (www.ivpress.com)
Pages: 239
In Small Things
with Great Love by Margot Starbuck one thought summarizes what makes her
voice fresh: “We don’t have to add lots more overwhelming activity to what
we’ve already got going. Rather, the regular stuff of our lives―the
commute to work and the potlucks and home improvement projects and errands and
play dates―are
the exact places in which we express and experience God’s love for a world in
need” (20).
If some Pharisees in Scripture were known for laying on
heavy burdens without lifting a finger to help, Starbuck is just the opposite.
Her whimsical, humorous viewpoint makes the work of reaching those on the
margins less frightening. Perhaps unknowingly her style echoes that of Jesus
when he said, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give
you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly
in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and
burden is light” (Mt. 11:28-30 ESV). I appreciate her gentle spirit, which does
not burden readers but seeks to release them into a richer, fuller life.
She lightens the load by being transparent about her own
struggles and showing through stories how readers can take baby steps. It is a
wonderful primer for those who want to know God’s heart for the poor and move
from an insular environment to one that is more open. It is far too easy to
become separate from the ones that God loves. This book is a start to bridging
that gap.
Along the way Starbuck addresses the many different
places in which we find ourselves. One of my favorite chapters is “Introverts.”
I found it liberating because it affirms the type of person that I am by
temperament and points to ways of loving God and neighbor appropriate to it. It
makes a point reiterated throughout the book. We can be ourselves in engaging
others.
In keeping with the spirit of whimsy, this book can be
read creatively in a way that considers our various differences and roles. At
the end of each chapter readers have the option to skip to a section relevant
to them. At the end of “Introverts,” if you are female, you can turn to page 75
to read “Women.” If you are male, you can keep reading into the next chapter,
“Men.” And so it goes at the end of every chapter. Readers in every walk of
life are addressed, and they can follow this adventurous path if they choose
not to read straight through. It’s all so good that those who skip around might
want to go back and catch the parts they miss.
One part that troubled me comes toward the end where the
author discusses the impact of our choices. How we spend and consume has an
impact on the rest of the world, and it is right to consider this. It’s not
that I disagree, but I wonder if there is more to consider than choosing to pay
more so that we don’t support cheap labor. I am simplifying, but I wonder what
God would have us do. I have a friend that out of necessity buys cheap jeans. I
live in an area where unemployment is typically above the state average. Some
people, and I am now one of them, depend at least in part on the meager income
they gain from working at big box retailers.
After being denied entrance into our community several
years ago, Walmart is getting ready to open in a location that was abandoned
after another store that was popular locally went out of business. As I am sure
is the case in most places, there will be more applicants than job openings.
Even though many local residents strongly oppose this retail giant, others will
welcome the low prices. Perhaps an obvious solution is for retailers like Walmart
to act responsibly and improve their record in relation to all involved in the
manufacture and sale of a product. Loving your neighbor precludes exploiting
him. Let justice roll down from the upper echelons to the lowest in every
endeavor. What a difference it would make, not to mention the hope it would
engender. Do these corporations and the people that manage them have the will
to make changes?
If the answer in part is to avoid shopping at big box
retailers, their employees might lose their jobs and be forced to find new ones
in a scarce environment. Is this a cost that our nation needs to bear to move
toward a more just society? It would be interesting to know more of what
Starbuck and others think. I don’t have the answer.
What troubles me is wondering if these issues are more
complex than we realize. Then again, maybe part of the answer is, as much as
possible, to be simple in the sense of not complicating how God would have each
individual respond. That in part is what makes this book endearing. Normally,
it’s not a matter of doing great things, but small things with great love.